How To Handle Haters (Part 3)

This post on how to handle haters is a good way to help you deal with difficult people or hate less when a reasonable response is presented.

Did You Know?

Haters will always exist and the interesting thing is that most of the times they don’t even see themselves as that. The key is to put yourself in their shoes and be able to explain their position better than they can for true objectivity.

The Main Problem That We All Face

Do you know someone that has had a little too much haterade? Do you know someone that has had one too many “hater tots?” Watch the video to understand the underlying principles that are at work in the human mind.

Top 3 Things To Keep In Mind About Haters

1.) Confirmation Bias 101
– Unconsciously referencing people, organizations, or studies that only support your own point of view
– Reality: People judge themselves on intention and judge others on their actions
2.) Cognitive Dissonance 101
– Feeling uncomfortable or insecure after holding two opposing beliefs in your head at the same time
– Example: “I really like their charisma, but disagree with what they said about…”
3.) What’s The Solution?
– “I never allow myself to have an opinion on anything that I don’t know the other side’s argument better than they do.” — Charlie Munger
– “Hustle until your haters ask if you’re hiring.” – Tai Lopez

This Video Goes Best With

1.) How to handle haters part 1: This video lays down the ground work for what presuppositions are and how they run rampant in “discussion” online and in person.

2.) How to handle haters part 2: This video goes over they main types of misperceptions and why its so important to not be so one sided and get ALL the facts (and accurate facts at that).

3.) Essential oil haters: A lot of people hate on essential oils because they are so entrenched in one way of thinking that they are no longer open to the truth even if it contradicts their own biases. This video helps to address a few of the main objections.

In Summary

Handling haters is more about being able to develop conflict resolution skills. You’ll have people that are constructive or deconstructive with their criticism but they key is to remain reasonable and stick to the facts. I like to come to conclusions slowly and hold on to them loosely as more or better information comes in.

What Are My Next Steps?

The first thing to do is sign up for my FREE 4 part essential oil class online so you can learn more about natural solutions TODAY!